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Post  Miss on Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:08 pm

Ok i dont know how many time i have been called cute or beautiful or sweet or hot or sexy or what ever other names saying im all that and more... i dont feel it or think i am, im not a chick to stick her nose up in the air, but see my problem is i get called all these sweet name's and im a really down to earth chick and make friends super easy but i just dont seem to be good enough to have a relationship with.... someone explain this please as im lost??

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Post  The_Agora on Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:20 pm

All those sweet names can be used for three different reasons, but don't take them as the honest truth until someones actions backup there words, 1. to butter someone up 2. they actually see you this way 3. Terms of indearment, So let people prove these things to you in many different ways.

To answer your "I don't feel it or think i am & I'm not good enough", these are self worth issues, building up inside you because of your own bad experiences & how people treat you in life, further more it's you holding onto your own pain/hurt & believing deep down that how you feel just isn't important to anyone, you couldn't be more wrong, people often care a lot more than you think but quite often we are so caught up in our own pain & emotions we are to blind to see them caring for us.

Quite often you'll find the snobby girl with her nose in the air is 10 times more insecure than the rest & barely holding it togetherhence the bitch attitude she puts forward which is quite often mistake for a bitch when it's just her way of her putting her walls up to protect herself.

Don't take peoples actions or rejecting you personally, it's there life & they have there own issues to deal with & are most often too caught up in there own emotions to notice.

Develope a health curious attitude over a judgemental one it'll change your life and how you interact with people, don't focus on problems focus on solutions & you'll be a winner, negative thought's give negative actions & positive thought give postive actions....

I'll be happy to answer any other questions just give me time to process them first lol have a great day Krissy your bloody awesome in my book huny. Smile xox
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What I think

Post  Tassie_Sweet_Devil on Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:25 pm

Hi, by the sounds of things you are a down to earth cool chick that gets along with peopple very well, but when a relationship is involed its a differnce story, because of parst worng choosers we have maid. we have been hurt mentally, physically and emotionally. So we end up building a barricade arround our harts and padlock and near throw the key away. Over sumtime being alone now we dont feel good enough for a relationship, even if we are called all these sweet names, but to us words can not penetrate our barricade that we have b uilt. I belive actions can or we can just now start tacking piece by piece off our barricades. As hard as it is to do this, its hard enough being alone and at the end off the day we have grown stronget then before.

So all im saying is peopple like us need to start opening our harts, if our minds are all ready opened to a relatioship. We have maid our self like this an now its up to our self to make a happer life. I hope I have tuched on a lil bit of what your trying to figger out. Very Happy
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Wow

Post  Miss on Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:41 pm

Wow thanks for the really honest answers guys, im sure im not the only girl to think these things so im sure you will help many with this Smile Thanks heaps x

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Post  jugs on Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:28 pm

Interesting reading lots to ponder over here. For my part, I believe it's all about what they can't say. We ( and I'm not an exception Neutral ) use words like these when we lack the insight or the balls to say it how it is. Especially when we like someone but they may not be exactly right, and don't know how to deal with the situation. example : ohhhh your so cute....or god your a sexy thing but! etc etc...
I hate the word Cute: - "I'm not a kitten"
Gee your sexy - "You should see me when I try lol"
Your hot -" well I was this arvo but it's got a little chilly now "...........mmm these words don't mean much to me either.
Beautiful on the other hand...if used in the right context ...is beautiful!
Your beautiful - "I see you from the inside looking out" ........."I see all of you"...
lmao sniff sniff who knew I was so romantic, stick with that one hun..xx Krissy
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Post  Miss on Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:58 pm

So With you on that jugs and will be remembering them word of wisdom for a long time....
by the way nice jugs Wink Wink Wink xxx thanks hun

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Post  The_Agora on Tue Feb 07, 2012 4:05 pm

Love your work Jugs, honesty & being straight forwards is the best way, best not to over share though got to keep some mystery. Smile
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agreed :P

Post  Miss on Tue Feb 07, 2012 4:47 pm

oh yeh mystery there has to be some of that or what the fun in it all, its great when getting to know someone the mystery behind there every word and who they really are as a person Smile, there some great advise been given thanks guys and girl heaps made me a little wiser and helped heaps Smile

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Post  JAY on Mon May 07, 2012 12:36 pm

i think this question had been answered, i shall say nothing but. but. Laughing

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